Office Life: How to Behave at an Office Party
Office Party Etiquette
Office parties are meant to reward employees and encourage socializing between departments. While these parties can be a great way to unwind and talk to coworkers that you normally wouldn’t, they can be particularly dangerous to your career if you don’t conduct yourself with a certain amount of professionalism. Sure it’s a party, but it’s also a work sponsored party, which sadly means how you behave at the party can directly or indirectly affect your job or reputation within the company. Making fun of your boss in front of the company may get you a few laughs at the time, but come Monday the joke may be one you when you’re told to clean out your desk. Here are a few simple rules to help you enjoy an office party and live to tell about it.
Make an appearance
Even if you really don’t feel like partying, it is a good idea to at least make an appearance. While performing well in your daily work is a good indication of the kind of employee you are, most employers also want you to fit in and get along with your fellow coworkers. Networking skills are very important tools in the workplace and the more popular you are in the workplace, the more it may help you succeed. Even if you have other plans, try to attend the party for at least an hour. Come in, say hello to everyone, and casually leave. People will remember that you were there, even if it was only for a short while.
Make the rounds
Like I mentioned before, networking is important. Don’t just come to the party and talk to your usual group of work friends. Talk to people you wouldn’t normally talk to (especially upper management). When you do introduce yourself, be modest. No one wants to hear you drone on about your accomplishments, especially at a party. Try to make yourself seem as outgoing as possible, even if you are not. This way management will remember you as being social and down to earth.
Everything in moderation
Just because there is free food and alcohol available doesn’t mean you need to get drunk and stuff your pockets full of cocktail shrimp. Pace yourself! There’s no point in memorizing these important tips if you’re going to drink so much that you forget everything. Nobody wants to be that guy at the party. You may have a great time, but people are going to remember how you acted come Monday, even if you don’t.
Be available
Not only should you introduce yourself to new people, but you should be welcoming and friendly to those that introduce themselves to you. Avoid crossing your arms, as this is type of body language signifies that you want to be left alone. Also, try to make eye contact with people and always display a friendly smile. Just don’t leer at people from across the room and make sure your smile is warm and welcoming and not just creepy.
Watch your mouth
The party atmosphere may lower your inhibitions and give you the feeling that you can speak candidly about a variety of topics. This is not the case. You are most likely being watched during the majority of the party, whether it be by coworkers or management. Try to avoid controversial topics and office gossip. This one is a no brainer, but you should also refrain from complaining about your job or the party itself. You need to keep a positive attitude to survive in the workplace and office parties are no different.